I'm so sorry, Luckie. I understand. My parents disowned me and my brother for similar reasons. Fundamentalist Xtians are hopelessly brainwashed, ensnared in a fantasy that simultaneously makes them think that they are superior to everybody, but makes them fear that anyone who isn't in their little itty bitty circle will cause them to doubt and then their all-loving wonderful gawd will fry them for eternity for it. My Mother actually believed that if she allowed her children into her house, she would go to hell. (And, oh, btw, my brother and I are kind, law-abiding, open minded, hard-working people who make time to volunteer in charity organizations -- something our xtian parents never bothered to do.)
"The family that prays together...is brainwashing their children."- Albert Einstein