(September 26, 2015 at 12:17 am)Lemonvariable72 Wrote:(September 25, 2015 at 6:08 pm)Losty Wrote: Personally I have a thing for men with an intimidating and arrogant sense of authority. This, in the past, has put me in awkward unwanted (even on my own part) situations at a job. It also gets me out of a lot of speeding tickets. For some reason the same cop that was a completely dick when he walked up is feeling much more lenient after I turn into a blushing stuttering mess.That is a recipe for diseaster. Personally l hate arrogance because it breeds ignorance and dries up empathy. The reason I comment on this is because of how in high school I tried to be a model gentleman and tried to be extremely nice to girls. Didn't work worth a shit and I just called a creep most times. I used to wonder why these beautiful girls would walk off with these morons and I think maybe you have granted me some insight there. Though now a days I don't give a fuck about being nice, and I use genuine kindness instead. And if people think I'm a creep they can go fuck themselves. Sorry for the rant, feelings from school came back.
I appreciate a man in uniform, and I see where the authority figure can be somewhat appealing,
...but I can't honestly say that I personally share Losty's attraction for the intimidation and arrogance.
(no offence to her, whatsoever. To each their own).
Confidence is one thing...but I can't stand ego.
To me, ego is a red flag that he's actually juvenile or insecure, underneath.
I like men who respect themselves and others...
...as long as he isn't a doormat. Doormats are not sexy.
But Lemon,
there will always be girls who like bad boys.
But there will always be women who appreciate sincerity, self-respect, and maturity, too.