RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
September 27, 2015 at 1:44 pm
(July 6, 2015 at 4:37 pm)emjay Wrote: I feel kind of awkward talking about this now after Rev Rye shared his experience. If people don't take no for an answer then it becomes harassment, or worse. <snip>. What I was really talking about was just flirting among friends, not strangers, and as I said, only if they're game.
I'd rather flirt with strangers... I'm no good at flirting with friends. I tend to make people uncomfortable. Myriad reasons, none the least of which is
But, I generally like hearing positive flirtatiousness from others... If I were aware that a guy is strictly homosexual, then it could hurt my self-esteem (as a woman) for him to tell me he fancies me... but the real trouble for me comes from other women, whom I desire with a truly lesbian passion. It's all well and good... until they say this:
"I really like you/I love you/You're really attractive/I want you/etc.... BUT ______________"
"Oh, I HATE cannonballs!" -Porthos (The Pirate)
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day