Some parental advice from all the lovely parentals? Non parentals also welcome :D

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Hmm, that's difficult. Is there any possible kind of compromise? Where she does the more academic subjects with the grade up, but then the more mundane ones and stuff like PE with her own grade? Or other ways to keep in contact with her friends regularly? If not, then it's a very hard choice. I'd lean towards putting her up a grade, but if that's going to make her unhappy then it might not be worth it.

Like c172, I was put up a grade in maths but not other subjects, which worked out as well as could be expected for me.