RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 8:56 pm
(This post was last modified: October 5, 2015 at 8:58 pm by Losty.)
I will be perfectly honest here and say that I don't really care for porn either.
When I was a Christian...I was a very very different Christian from you. And in my religion I was raised to believe that anyone who deviated from what I was taught was not a true Christian. I won't go into detail because personal shit is personal, but I detested sex when I was a Christian. Even though I never had sex with anyone but my husband it made me feel dirty and awful and ashamed.
Now, I embrace my sexuality here, at times much like a teenage boy O_O but I still struggle even with the idea in real life. I'll get there. I will have good sex before I die. That's a goal of mine haha.
But I don't like porn because it's so fake and usually made for men. Also because I hate face shots and for whatever reason that tends to be popular in porn. Occasionally a homemade amatuer video is nice but it's still....meh
But literary porn, now that is something I can really get into. It's hot. It gives me a focus storyline but I can change anything I don't like in my mind. I can deviate almost without limits.
Anywho, sex is natural and healthy and I don't think having only one partner or even only one partner at a time is important. It's a personal choice. One isn't better than the other.
Wait...is this the rambling thread? Damn. Lost again.
When I was a Christian...I was a very very different Christian from you. And in my religion I was raised to believe that anyone who deviated from what I was taught was not a true Christian. I won't go into detail because personal shit is personal, but I detested sex when I was a Christian. Even though I never had sex with anyone but my husband it made me feel dirty and awful and ashamed.
Now, I embrace my sexuality here, at times much like a teenage boy O_O but I still struggle even with the idea in real life. I'll get there. I will have good sex before I die. That's a goal of mine haha.
But I don't like porn because it's so fake and usually made for men. Also because I hate face shots and for whatever reason that tends to be popular in porn. Occasionally a homemade amatuer video is nice but it's still....meh
But literary porn, now that is something I can really get into. It's hot. It gives me a focus storyline but I can change anything I don't like in my mind. I can deviate almost without limits.
Anywho, sex is natural and healthy and I don't think having only one partner or even only one partner at a time is important. It's a personal choice. One isn't better than the other.
Wait...is this the rambling thread? Damn. Lost again.
