I guess basically what I'm saying also is that sexual activity isn't a zero-sum game. Loving intimacy with a partner of any sort - be it monogamous and/or committed or casual doesn't mean you have to negate how much you also like pleasing yourself through a fantasy life as well. You can love both equally.
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