Christian marriage in 2015

[jenny1972]

My head is spinning just trying to wrap it around that.  So, he's saying it's wrong, but it's not rape?  And if it's physical abuse, what else do you call physical abuse of the genitals but rape?

I didn't find the author of the "Biblically speaking" quote.  But I can tell you that the author is male, and has never been raped.  I am also a survivor of domestic violence.  (Is wife-beating ever addressed in the Bible?  I don't think so.  I should look it up.)  I can tell you clearly that many women survive the constant dull fear of wondering when the next punch and slap will come.  But having to live with your rapist . . .                   [fighting back nausea] 
suicide would start to look really, really, really awesomely good in a very short time.

i know islam has instructions on wife beating i dont know about christianity the article does say "Biblically speaking all those who are under various authorities can and should be disciplined by those authorities. " so im sure it implies that and thats all you need the right interpretation