Quote:"you are disrespecting me and my views"
She's exactly right. That is how they feel. In fact, your very existence as an atheist is threatening to them because it is proof staring them right in the face that not everyone needs their bullshit to get through life. They HATE that.
No matter how great everything else is, remember the sub title of Hitchens' book: "How Religion Poisons Everything."
Only you can decide if it is worth it to you to pursue. But it does not sound as if you will change her.