In just under six hours I have to go back to family court. Again. My ex and his obsession with never-ending litigation and trying to separate me from my children has reached a new level.
I lost my home in July due to landlord retaliation and ever since, my fiancee and I have been living in a motel. Not the most ideal place, but nonetheless, here we are. It's better than the street or being separated by having to live in gender biased homeless shelters. Well, anyway, after five months of being here, we will finally be moving into a new house on Dec. 18th. Needless to say, it will be a relief getting back to "normal" and being able to sit at a table to eat and being able to sleep in my own bed.
My ex, has once again, taken the opportunity to drag me back into court over reasoning that only a psychopathic narcissist would understand. Reasons which have NOTHING to with my current living arrangement, mind you. And the ONLY reason I can think of as to why he's making this attempt, once again, is because he thinks that he will be awarded full sole legal AND physical custody of my youngest simply because I'm in a motel. It should be mentioned that last week, I hand delivered a clocked in, court copy of my pre-trial memorandium to his attorney and told her that we will be moving on Dec. 18 to appropriate housing. She had not yet completed or filed her pre-trial memorandum so she was well aware of this change in my living situation.
I finally get a copy of her memorandum and what do I find listed as one of the issues? Whether or not I should be allowed to have any rights of physical or legal custody based on my living in a motel. AYFKM?? Included in the list of issues is also a new accusation of my refusal to allow my youngest to get counseling. Really? That's news to me. Not once has he ever proposed such a thing, nor has he even asked my child about it.
Today is just the pre-trial conference to determine whether or not there should even be a trial for my ex's request to modify the current custody order.
I am so sick and tired of this assclown playing the victim while he continues to mentally and emotionally abuse not only me, but my kids. His endless litigation is abuse of the court system. He can't prove a single thing he's alleging and honestly, I'm burned out. Ten years of having to deal with HIS inability to co-parent. HIS inability to create a sense of positive feelings for the kids when we must speak to one another. Enough is enough already.
So, anyway, I just needed to get that out. There's so much more to it, but it would turn into a tl;dr and honestly, it's 5:30am. I haven't got the energy for that.
I lost my home in July due to landlord retaliation and ever since, my fiancee and I have been living in a motel. Not the most ideal place, but nonetheless, here we are. It's better than the street or being separated by having to live in gender biased homeless shelters. Well, anyway, after five months of being here, we will finally be moving into a new house on Dec. 18th. Needless to say, it will be a relief getting back to "normal" and being able to sit at a table to eat and being able to sleep in my own bed.
My ex, has once again, taken the opportunity to drag me back into court over reasoning that only a psychopathic narcissist would understand. Reasons which have NOTHING to with my current living arrangement, mind you. And the ONLY reason I can think of as to why he's making this attempt, once again, is because he thinks that he will be awarded full sole legal AND physical custody of my youngest simply because I'm in a motel. It should be mentioned that last week, I hand delivered a clocked in, court copy of my pre-trial memorandium to his attorney and told her that we will be moving on Dec. 18 to appropriate housing. She had not yet completed or filed her pre-trial memorandum so she was well aware of this change in my living situation.
I finally get a copy of her memorandum and what do I find listed as one of the issues? Whether or not I should be allowed to have any rights of physical or legal custody based on my living in a motel. AYFKM?? Included in the list of issues is also a new accusation of my refusal to allow my youngest to get counseling. Really? That's news to me. Not once has he ever proposed such a thing, nor has he even asked my child about it.
Today is just the pre-trial conference to determine whether or not there should even be a trial for my ex's request to modify the current custody order.
I am so sick and tired of this assclown playing the victim while he continues to mentally and emotionally abuse not only me, but my kids. His endless litigation is abuse of the court system. He can't prove a single thing he's alleging and honestly, I'm burned out. Ten years of having to deal with HIS inability to co-parent. HIS inability to create a sense of positive feelings for the kids when we must speak to one another. Enough is enough already.
So, anyway, I just needed to get that out. There's so much more to it, but it would turn into a tl;dr and honestly, it's 5:30am. I haven't got the energy for that.
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