RE: My heart is breaking... I thought Christians are suppose to love "uncondition...
December 29, 2015 at 11:53 am
(This post was last modified: December 29, 2015 at 11:56 am by kmthang.)
(December 29, 2015 at 11:28 am)drfuzzy Wrote: There are very few xtians who will partner with an atheist. The xtian belief system teaches that atheists will burn in hell for all eternity. If your GF believes that, then she would constantly have to try to bring you back into the xtian fold, to save you from her god's eternal judgment for not believing he exists. If she rejects you for your lack of belief, then it's not going to work.
My personal experience of xtian "unconditional love" is that it only applies to xtians who believe exactly the same things they do. Everybody else on the planet can burn.
I've never thought of it that way.
I thought love means love and not only to the same believers as you are :/(December 29, 2015 at 11:30 am)Wyrd of Gawd Wrote: Consider yourself lucky. You don't have to go through a divorce and lose most of your stuff. The longer you whine about her the longer you will be unhappy. So forget her and move on to someone better. There are millions available. So bury the relationship and start looking.
I can understand your advice. I am still lucky to be in this stage now than later. However, she's not one of those who knows the Bible inside out or one that goes out on missions and preach the gospel. She admits she's consider herself not a strong believer yet. That's why I want to hope that she can be one of those wives with non-believer husbands (which they exist, she and I even know a family in our community). This gives me hope. If she can be like that lady, it'll be the greatest solution for me but I need ideas how to get her to be like that.
