My heart is breaking... I thought Christians are suppose to love "unconditionally"

[Wyrd of Gawd]

Consider yourself lucky.  You don't have to go through a divorce and lose most of your stuff.  The longer you whine about her the longer you will be unhappy.  So forget her and move on to someone better.  There are millions available.  So bury the relationship and start looking.

Truly, your empathetic and sympathetic nature is inspiring.

I was in a good mood till I read that whine and then it pissed me off.  You can't force anyone to love you.  The guy doesn't meet the woman's criteria and she told him so.  He should accept it and move on and stop trying to control her.  He won't change his mind to give her what she wants so why does he expect her to change her mind to please him?  

While we don't like to regard people as throwaways most modern Americans go through at least 16 relationships and even then may not find someone who is fully agreeable.  By trying to cling to her he's only pissing her off and making himself unhappy.  And it's a downer to continue to read about it because the guy won't act as an adult.