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Death
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RE: Death
(March 10, 2009 at 5:00 am)Kyuuketsuki Wrote: Grief is selfish? I must remember that next time I see a friend or family member mowed down by a passing bus Confusedhock:
Kyu


I wasn't "getting almost into Buddhism " but expressing a fundamental Buddhist (and Hindu) belief; that attachment causes suffering.

Grief isn't selfish? What is it then? Unselfish? What is it you mourn? NOT your loss? Be interested in an alternative rational explanation.

Nor do I accept that suffering enobles or that we necessarily learn anything positive from suffering.The most important lesson I've learned from suffering is to avoid it whenever I can.

So far my fear of dying has outweighed any suffering I've experienced,albeit not by much a couple of times.Should the situation change,I will leave.

Kyu I'm not suggesting for second that you should agree with my perception. I ask only that you disagree with civility.It was not my intention to offend you.
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Messages In This Thread
Death - by puglover - January 10, 2009 at 1:15 am
RE: Death - by WWLD - January 10, 2009 at 1:28 am
RE: Death - by puglover - January 10, 2009 at 1:43 am
RE: Death - by g-mark - April 18, 2009 at 10:42 am
RE: Death - by Ace Otana - January 10, 2009 at 6:34 am
RE: Death - by leo-rcc - January 10, 2009 at 6:55 am
RE: Death - by Darwinian - January 10, 2009 at 6:57 am
RE: Death - by Ace Otana - January 10, 2009 at 7:16 am
RE: Death - by leo-rcc - January 10, 2009 at 7:03 am
RE: Death - by Darwinian - January 10, 2009 at 7:08 am
RE: Death - by Darwinian - January 10, 2009 at 7:23 am
RE: Death - by Ace Otana - January 10, 2009 at 7:33 am
RE: Death - by leo-rcc - January 10, 2009 at 9:42 am
RE: Death - by Demonaura - January 10, 2009 at 10:17 am
RE: Death - by leo-rcc - January 10, 2009 at 11:00 am
RE: Death - by Demonaura - January 10, 2009 at 12:26 pm
RE: Death - by WWLD - January 10, 2009 at 6:26 pm
RE: Death - by Eilonnwy - January 11, 2009 at 12:17 pm
RE: Death - by bozo - January 11, 2009 at 7:01 pm
RE: Death - by Matt - January 11, 2009 at 7:19 pm
RE: Death - by Sam - January 14, 2009 at 5:25 pm
RE: Death - by peregrine - January 15, 2009 at 7:20 am
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - January 15, 2009 at 8:58 am
RE: Death - by josef rosenkranz - February 1, 2009 at 4:33 pm
RE: Death - by Giff - February 16, 2009 at 11:06 am
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - February 17, 2009 at 6:33 am
RE: Death - by Eilonnwy - February 17, 2009 at 1:37 pm
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - March 9, 2009 at 9:29 am
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - March 9, 2009 at 10:18 am
RE: Death - by Mark - March 9, 2009 at 1:23 pm
RE: Death - by Edwardo Piet - March 9, 2009 at 7:12 pm
RE: Death - by Mark - March 9, 2009 at 9:15 pm
RE: Death - by Edwardo Piet - March 9, 2009 at 10:43 pm
RE: Death - by padraic - March 9, 2009 at 9:49 pm
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - March 9, 2009 at 11:46 pm
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - March 10, 2009 at 5:00 am
RE: Death - by padraic - March 10, 2009 at 6:52 am
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - March 10, 2009 at 7:32 am
RE: Death - by Edwardo Piet - March 10, 2009 at 7:23 am
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - March 10, 2009 at 7:09 pm
RE: Death - by padraic - March 10, 2009 at 7:37 pm
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - March 11, 2009 at 5:23 am
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - March 10, 2009 at 8:35 pm
RE: Death - by Edwardo Piet - March 10, 2009 at 8:39 pm
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - March 10, 2009 at 9:50 pm
RE: Death - by padraic - March 10, 2009 at 11:29 pm
RE: Death - by padraic - March 11, 2009 at 7:58 am
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - March 11, 2009 at 9:23 am
RE: Death - by Edwardo Piet - March 11, 2009 at 1:23 pm
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - March 13, 2009 at 8:35 am
RE: Death - by Edwardo Piet - March 13, 2009 at 8:57 am
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - March 13, 2009 at 9:01 am
RE: Death - by Edwardo Piet - March 13, 2009 at 9:08 am
RE: Death - by Ted1205 - April 3, 2009 at 9:46 pm
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - April 4, 2009 at 1:23 am
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - April 4, 2009 at 2:47 am
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - April 4, 2009 at 2:50 am
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - April 4, 2009 at 2:53 am
RE: Death - by fr0d0 - April 4, 2009 at 4:43 am
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - April 4, 2009 at 4:57 am
RE: Death - by fr0d0 - April 4, 2009 at 5:15 am
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - April 5, 2009 at 4:10 am
RE: Death - by fr0d0 - April 5, 2009 at 5:43 am
RE: Death - by Kyuuketsuki - April 5, 2009 at 11:51 am
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - April 4, 2009 at 5:25 am
RE: Death - by Tiberius - April 4, 2009 at 10:54 am
RE: Death - by fr0d0 - April 4, 2009 at 4:02 pm
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - April 5, 2009 at 2:33 am
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - April 5, 2009 at 5:48 am
RE: Death - by fr0d0 - April 5, 2009 at 7:10 am
RE: Death - by Giff - April 5, 2009 at 8:20 am
RE: Death - by athoughtfulman - April 5, 2009 at 8:48 am
RE: Death - by fr0d0 - April 5, 2009 at 4:01 pm

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