RE: Death
March 10, 2009 at 6:52 am
(This post was last modified: March 10, 2009 at 6:53 am by Oldandeasilyconfused.)
(March 10, 2009 at 5:00 am)Kyuuketsuki Wrote: Grief is selfish? I must remember that next time I see a friend or family member mowed down by a passing bushock:
Kyu
I wasn't "getting almost into Buddhism " but expressing a fundamental Buddhist (and Hindu) belief; that attachment causes suffering.
Grief isn't selfish? What is it then? Unselfish? What is it you mourn? NOT your loss? Be interested in an alternative rational explanation.
Nor do I accept that suffering enobles or that we necessarily learn anything positive from suffering.The most important lesson I've learned from suffering is to avoid it whenever I can.
So far my fear of dying has outweighed any suffering I've experienced,albeit not by much a couple of times.Should the situation change,I will leave.
Kyu I'm not suggesting for second that you should agree with my perception. I ask only that you disagree with civility.It was not my intention to offend you.