RE: My heart is breaking... I thought Christians are suppose to love "unconditionally"
December 30, 2015 at 10:11 am
To the OP, you really need to consider, that your belief is not based on fact, but desire. We make the same exact arguments to Christianity, Jewish and should as well Hinduism and Buddhism. We are one species, and there is no magic to life. Atheists are not evil, and we are not advocating doom and gloom. We can and do value human rights and we do see good in humanity, and we do have just as much ups and downs as everyone else. We simply don't assign any of this to the divine or a deity.
What you are going through with this girl is the same rejection I went through as a teen and young adult facing rejection. Nobody likes rejection, and being young and full of hormones is hell on your brain and body when you don't understand biologically what is really going on.
It really will be ok if you give up on your religion. The good news is that there is no hell to burn in and no god to punish you. You will feel lots better once you realize you don't have to defend that antiquated book. And again, this is not an argument we make to just Muslims, but all religions.
You can still live a good life and find happiness, no, that does not mean you wont have hardship, but it simply means you don't have to face the superstition of a cosmic Big Brother. My bluntess isn't to be mean but to get you to consider you really are needlessly scaring yourself for no good reason.
What you are going through with this girl is the same rejection I went through as a teen and young adult facing rejection. Nobody likes rejection, and being young and full of hormones is hell on your brain and body when you don't understand biologically what is really going on.
It really will be ok if you give up on your religion. The good news is that there is no hell to burn in and no god to punish you. You will feel lots better once you realize you don't have to defend that antiquated book. And again, this is not an argument we make to just Muslims, but all religions.
You can still live a good life and find happiness, no, that does not mean you wont have hardship, but it simply means you don't have to face the superstition of a cosmic Big Brother. My bluntess isn't to be mean but to get you to consider you really are needlessly scaring yourself for no good reason.
