My heart is breaking... I thought Christians are suppose to love "unconditionally"

[Godscreated]

@ kmthang, you've received advice mostly from the atheist here and some have given good advice and others I believe the majority have shown little care or compassion for your situation. Few Christians have responded because few Christians are here and I've been away with a project. I don't think the Christians have given much as advice but more to toot their horn or argue with each other.
I want to do it differently, first you got advice from an atheist that you changed and this is a fact, you are not the same person you were. So why do you expect her to love you when you are not the same person, would you love here if she changed in a way that was very disagreeable to you, maybe for a short time but at some time you would find that you can't love someone who is different thinking as you. She is different thinking than you are and at some point you will change the way you feel about her, I'm telling you this from many years of experience and knowing  how Christians believe. If you truly love her then why would you ask her to love someone who has changed, someone she feels she can't love, are you truly showing your love for people by expecting her to change just because you did. You believe that she should love unconditionally, yet you aren't showing unconditional love towards her, if you were, you would not ask her to change what she believes, you would unconditionally accept how she feels and move on.
I went through something akin to your experience and fought to know avail, looking back I wasted her time and mine. If she is making a stand for her beliefs honor them, if she has possibly found someone else let her go she has made up her mind, so either way you are more than likely out and Christ or someone else is in, I'm hoping it's Christ. You said she was not finished in exploring her belief, let her, don't try to change her just because you've changed, she has the same right you exercised and that's to find out what she needs in her life. With all this said if you two do completely separate you will find someone else, I did, others have and you will as long as you believe in love. Last thing I'm going to say, go back and examine what you've done to change your belief and see if you were correct in your change.

GC