RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 8:33 pm
(This post was last modified: January 10, 2016 at 8:33 pm by Catholic_Lady.)
(January 10, 2016 at 7:56 pm)Chad32 Wrote:(January 10, 2016 at 7:52 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: What? So a person shouldn't go to second base unless they intend on having intercourse?
On your second part, I agree. Obviously people need to be smart and careful in their actions. I did object to you saying she shouldn't be upset about getting raped, since she kissed/showered with him. And I did object to you comparing rape to a traffic accident.
Yeah. Unless you're with someone who is well practced at stopping themselves, by using a safe word or something similar, then you probably shouldn't start running for second base unless you intend to bring it home. Because sometimes it leads to things going wrong.
Safe word? Why can't "no, I don't want to do this anymore, stop" be enough? Why does someone need to be "practiced" in not raping someone when they are horny?
What I don't like is that you're kind of talking as though rape is an accidental thing that just "happens" and a man has no control over it once it's already started, or gotten close to starting. Perhaps that's not what you mean to say, but that's what it sounds like. And that specifically is what I'm taking issue with.
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