Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!

[Chad32]

Yeah. Unless you're with someone who is well practced at stopping themselves, by using a safe word or something similar, then you probably shouldn't start running for second base unless you intend to bring it home. Because sometimes it leads to things going wrong.

Safe word? Why can't "no, I don't want to do this anymore, stop" be enough? Why does someone need to be "practiced" in not raping someone when they are horny?  

What I don't like is that you're kind of talking as though rape is an accidental thing that just "happens" and a man has no control over it once it's already started, or gotten close to starting. Perhaps that's not what you mean to say, but that's what it sounds like. And that specifically is what I'm taking issue with.

It seems to me like it was more a case of this guy being drunk, and they started something consensual, and when she started struggling he might not have realized this was an indication that she wanted it to stop, instead of just being rough sex. Yes, it's something you have to practice. When your mind is flooded with chemicals, you have to practice at being clear headed enough to know when to stop.

Sex is not a very left brain activity. There's not much intellectualism and objective reasoning going on.