(January 13, 2016 at 10:00 am)Aractus Wrote:(January 12, 2016 at 9:08 am)pool the great Wrote: I tried my best to ignore your comments but since you've now directly addressed me I have no other way but to reply, so please know that I didn't really want to say this:
What you mean the two previous comments that I've made in this entire thread? You didn't ignore either of them, you misogynist fuckwit.
(January 12, 2016 at 9:08 am)pool the great Wrote: You stupid shit head excuse of a goddamn dumbass. You really don't know how to read English do you? Or is it the comprehension that's giving you trouble? Stop trying to put words into my mouth like an imbecile while you attempt to appear like the hero AF deserves. You shit heads are making me out as some women hater. I love women, I hate shit heads, is that so hard to understand? I know what rape is. I'm not advocating for rape. Holy shit, you really are brainless aren't you? You think I go around raping women that are vulnerable? Jesus fucking Christ man. You don't know shit about me and you're judging me like you've known me from my birth. So stop assuming my persona.
Okay, I know you're feeling pissed off. Stop. Don't comment. This comment was directed at everyone that mistook my intentions. I didn't really mean what I said. I know you're a wonderful person and I think what you did with that female friend was very nice, I hope we have more understanding and good men like you.
I don't believe a word of that pool. You were not the only one at all, and especially judging someone in South Africa with absolutely no comprehension of their culture. For all you know sharing showers is an every day thing there. But more to the point, she's a foreigner in SA, so actually she shouldn't be expected to understand where there may be moire risks when compared to her culture, and she has every right to expect men not to rape her - even if they inviter her into the shower with them.
My point stands, you're a fuckwit.
(January 12, 2016 at 8:45 am)Stimbo Wrote: There have been times when my Sam - my own fiancée - came on to me and was all over me after a night with the girls; and I turned her down specifically because she was drunk and it would have been taking advantage of her. The morning after the first time, she told me she was surprised because she'd had guys in the past who did take advantage, and that she loved me all the more because it was another way in which I was different. Then we went off and reaffirmed our love, so we could both enjoy it properly.
That's a much happier ending than my story which ends with me alone!! Although not the worst I could tell you - another friend of mine - way long ago, maybe 7 years ago or so, wanted to drive out and see me. From god knows where (well about 3-3.5 hrs drive out of Canberra), and she was drunk. OMG had she not listened to me there's every possibility she would have died on the highway. Or, more likely, she may have had an accident but been fine. Either way it wasn't a risk worth taking.
Aractus really? Your going to be sexist enough to say that a woman, who is a anti-rape advocate, should not be expected to make herself aware of the risks when visiting another country? They're grown adults not fucking children. Of course anyone traveling is expected to make themselves aware of the risks of different places. For example if I traveled to Texas I would not bring up or use the word atheist because they're a lot of Christian gun nuts there.
Also they didn't share the shower, he offered to let her use his as she didn't have hot water at the hostel she was at. According to her story she didn't even have her clothes off when he busted down the door. Now if she was raped(I'm a little skeptical about the story still) then that is horrible and unjustifable.
Now who in their right fucking mind takes an offer to use the shower from a half drunk, homeless man, that has made it super clear he wants to fuck you, in the middle of the rape capital of the world.
To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day,
To the last syllable of recorded time;
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!
Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player,
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage,
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day,
To the last syllable of recorded time;
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!
Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player,
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage,
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.
