(February 23, 2016 at 12:40 pm)Drich Wrote: I see you've elected to ignore all my hard speaking point and go for the things you think I can't argue.
(That is why I left you option three) I saw you were looking for a panic stop button for this conversation. You wanted/needed a "moral high road" something I would say that would allow to cuss God drop your mic and walk out. that is why you went 'fishing' with "black parents and gay parents" when Nothing being discussed mirrors either situation.
So I left you with "what if the children don't want gay parents?" Then the best thing/line you can come up with is: "we don't get to pick our parents so "f-God and Jesus."
How desperate are you?
:Roflol:
That was great. Weak minded weak willed person wants to argue that interracial couples should not help prepare their children for the unique set of challenges they will face in life because they do not belong to any given race, by fishing for a racist or anti gay comments.
You are a terrible person. You are looking to discredit me (by trying to paint me as a racist or homophobic)and what I am trying to bring to the table by identifying a great need that all mixed raced people seem to share, A problem that i have personally experienced and found in others like me. A problem your supposed Grandkids will also have to deal with. All because you don't like me putting the onus of this responsibility on the parents? If not the Parent Then who?
People like you make me sick. You think what you believe now about how the world works is the only way, or is automatically the best way. this is the very type of closed minded cultural thinking that brings so much strife in the life of a mixed race child.
Just try to imagine a willfully ignorant person just as oblivious and proudful as you are, about what they think is the culturally 'right' way of doing things, but then try to imagine the way they are doing it is exactly the opposite of what you are doing.
Can you imagine the conflict that would stir up in a child? Now Imagine one parent teaching the child to view and work in the world your way and the other view and work the world in a completely opposite way. with the same self righteous ferver as you have displayed here. the same say anything and do anything to make you point, and then you see the selfishness I am talking about.
It's time to grow up g-ma and open your eyes to some of the world that your grand kids will have to deal with. Not the world you paint but the world waiting for them. Don't wait till it's too late, don't wait till they start having problems. Give them the tool to deal with issues before they become problems.
You're the ignorant fuck here. Drawing strawmen.
Where the fuck did I say children shouldn't be prepared for adversity? Go ahead. Show me. Or is it that you don't like how I deal with adversity? I'm guessing that's it. You think YOUR way is the only way.
Multiracial parents aren't the problem. Racist fucks are the problem. That it was beat into your head that it's your fault for your supposed experience growing up, I'm truly sorry. I feel sorry for you growing up with those ideas. That somehow it's your fault, or your parents fault that there are racist assholes out there. But it's not your fault. It's not the fault of your parents, no matter how much you'd like for it to be. Your idea of what's 'right' for society is sick and twisted. I suggest you seek help.
