(March 10, 2011 at 7:33 am)KichigaiNeko Wrote:(March 9, 2011 at 9:00 am)Aerzia Saerules Arktuos Wrote:(March 9, 2011 at 7:33 am)KichigaiNeko Wrote: Inaccurate again Sae....
I really do not see how it is inaccurate to state that one's sex drive precludes all sexual actions they take, whether those actions be masturbation or rape.
Really, how can that become inaccurate? 0.o
As bizzare as it sounds the whole sex act for some is ALL ABOUT POWER over some one. The ability to inflict fear, terror and pain on another is something that some humans get their 'jollies' from. So your asumption that the sex drive alone is the cause of rape is inaccurate because; in with all of that there are wife beatings, husband beatings, child abuse beatings, murders along with the whole religious ethos of 'Heap big man thng' and the 'puny little wife ownership' etc. In short I am of the opinion that while sex is used by many as a power trip (in all fairness not by just the males of our society, although they seem to be in the greater numbers)
I believe you misunderstand me. I posit that a sex drive is a requirement for rape to occur, not that it is the only requirement. Indeed, I have quite the sex drive myself... yet i couldn't stand to fuck someone with their consent, let alone without.
Rape, in plenty of cases (and I should think most!), is the result of a desire and an available resource. Given strong enough desire for resource: control is lost. Compare it to our desire for water when we are thirsty, and place a lake in front of a man who has been 3 days in a dessert without water. Replace the desire for water with the desire to fuck something, and place something attractive and 'fuckable' into the picture. Therein lies most of rapes.
Sadists are after their own thing too (and no, not all rapists are sadists, infact I believe most of them are 'jo average fella'). I don't claim to have an idea what they are after though.
Quote:Masterbation is a solitary act and involves the imagination only. (Yes I know props are also used) As a survivour of a child rape incident I can say that it is all about a pathetic insecure (and often religious)person having power and control over a perceived "weaker" individual. The only tool that works is to have the view that ...Yes the offender is the one with the problem, and to NOT linger too long in victimhood.
Masturbation is not necessarily a solitary act... and it often involves props (to the point that a gigantic business exists of selling/providing these props). As someone with a disgusting memory* of molesting someone: I can say that it is about desire. It need not posses any baggage past this point. The offender is plenty a victim of rape and its related fields as well.
*note: this platform housed a much different personality before me.
Quote:As you get older you will come across males who will "try it on over you" I am glad to think that they are in for one great big surprise...in as much as that.... you will probably FLATTEN them. (Puny Little Man things)
I hope I won't come across any men or women that want to do so... I am plenty submissive if your aim is to pleasure me (and not to violently rape me).
But I am not naive to the point where i think myself immune of it... and I prefer knives, because I understand very well how they work and can put them to use with minimal clash between my brain and the weapon. I can make do with the basic body (I can wrestle in a fair match against an elder brother (former wrestler) and my father (former wrestling coach)... and I would like to note that they are both much larger than me)... but I am far from even calling myself adept in battle, let alone accomplished/particularly skilled.
Granted, if the paragon of the black bucks wants to rape me: there's pretty much nothing I can do against him. But I hope there is enough fight in me to ward off the common venom. Honestly, I much more anticipate rape attempts from people I know that people I don't.
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day