RE: Hope for America!!
April 17, 2016 at 6:36 am
(This post was last modified: April 17, 2016 at 6:38 am by I_am_not_mafia.)
Atlas speaks the truth here. I have spoken to many people who have fetishes from their childhood because of how they were disciplined by their parents. Hell, I've spanked most of them myself.
If you paddle a child and tell them that it's for their own good, then they start to see this as an act of love. And if you aren't doing it for their own good then it's just abuse. So the child grows up wanting to be paddled.
I've spoken to a Catholic woman who had a fetish for being crucified because she was brought up in a Catholic school and made to idolise Jesus on a cross. She also fantasised about making love to Jesus while he was on the cross. I spoke to another catholic woman who was still being spanked by her parents in her early twenties and she wanted a husband who would continue doing the same to her so she could lovingly submit to it. This is a well known phenomenon in the BDSM community.
Twinned with Christian self hatred and repression, enjoyment through pain can become quite cathartic. It's like crying at a chick flick or doing a work-out. Pain releases endorphins in the brain which can lead to a natural high called subspace.
If you paddle a child and tell them that it's for their own good, then they start to see this as an act of love. And if you aren't doing it for their own good then it's just abuse. So the child grows up wanting to be paddled.
I've spoken to a Catholic woman who had a fetish for being crucified because she was brought up in a Catholic school and made to idolise Jesus on a cross. She also fantasised about making love to Jesus while he was on the cross. I spoke to another catholic woman who was still being spanked by her parents in her early twenties and she wanted a husband who would continue doing the same to her so she could lovingly submit to it. This is a well known phenomenon in the BDSM community.
Twinned with Christian self hatred and repression, enjoyment through pain can become quite cathartic. It's like crying at a chick flick or doing a work-out. Pain releases endorphins in the brain which can lead to a natural high called subspace.