(April 19, 2016 at 5:53 pm)Drich Wrote: That's real funny why my wife hits me too. Last time I told her some spagetti was not fit to give the dogs and she took the scalding pot off the stove and threw at me. (whole wheat pasta) just missed me with the pot but covered me in 212+*F Pasta and sauce.
Another example of not being able to feel empathy.
It didn't occur to you the effect this would have on your wife. All you see is the action that resulted from it and think that it is abuse from her.
You go through life not really understanding why the world works as it does. But you don't even understand that you are missing some vital understanding.