(April 20, 2016 at 1:14 pm)Mathilda Wrote:What makes you think I don't nor did not always have limits?(April 20, 2016 at 12:22 pm)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: Do you take baseball bats to them? Perhaps you hold their heads under water?
At what point does Drich decide that it's too much? How does he decide how much to punish them?
Physical discipline is always a emotionless calculated decision, meant to disrupt a bad or destructive behavior. The type of swat or the amount of swatting involved is based on infraction and severity or number of times this behavior has been dealt with prior.
Once the behavior has been torn down with a spanking the child is built back up, the set up to this disipline is as important and consistency with discipline as well as the discussion and goal setting afterward, along with follow up and follow through.
Anything else you may have imagined and ascribed to me from your own personal beatdowns from your bad or wicked parents is based on your own selfrighteousness and wishing the worst of someone who simply does things differently than you do. (which makes you and people like you very bad people, because you judge with out detail or complete information, you are a mindless linch mob for fills in gaps rather than seek out truth.)
Hey look mothra the dot is now on you get it..