Hope for America!!

[I_am_not_mafia]

What makes you think I don't nor did not always have limits?

Physical discipline is always a emotionless calculated decision, meant to disrupt a bad or destructive behavior. The type of swat or the amount of swatting involved is based on infraction and severity or number of times this behavior has been dealt with prior.

Once the behavior has been torn down with a spanking the child is built back up, the set up to this disipline is as important and consistency with discipline as well as the discussion and goal setting afterward, along with follow up and follow through.

So which is it?

On the one hand you are saying that you hit a child until you get the results that you want. You are admitting that there is no actual limit to how much you will hit a child.

If the child continues to rebel, how far are you personally willing to go?

But on the other hand you suggest that you have limits. What are those limits?

Do you personally know how much you are willing to hit a child?

Still waiting for an answer to this. Especially as you have since said this:

The point? If you child need discipline then you must be willing to do whatever it takes no matter what to reel them in the frame work of our society