"Men are all pigs"

[GrandizerII]

I consider those men (who lose respect for a man with a woman who respects herself) to be really insecure. I know a lot of them in the extended family ... most of them are chronically and involuntarily single.

There's a difference between the two things you're talking about. 

Pool is talking about dominance and submission.  Irrational, you're talking someone having respect for themselves/ not having respect for themselves.

Dominance or submission aren't really definite indicators of self respect.

First, to be clear, nowhere in that quote did I say that submissiveness implies lack of respect for oneself. Not saying that's how you interpreted it, but just saying.

Second, I think it's clear what pool means when he says "dominant". Read his prior posts.