(May 10, 2016 at 3:50 pm)Thena323 Wrote:(May 10, 2016 at 11:27 am)pool the great Wrote: I don't understand how I can supposedly be a misogynist and love women at the same time.
I've never called you a misogynist.
However, I would say that it is indeed quite possible for some men to simultaneously desire women, while deeply resenting women for the perceived 'control' that said desire gives them over men, just to answer your question.
*Some means: Not all.
Quote:Ideal purpose? I was explaining how pampering women is how I generally treat them, in which universe does it directly translates to me asserting that getting pampered is their ideal purpose in life?
As quoted from my previous response in the hide tag above...
*But asserting that their IDEAL purpose in life is to exist as cutsie wootsie, pampered puppies princesses for your convenience, pleasure and amusement clearly indicates your urge to belittle and dehumanize them.*
...The purpose being what I've highlighted in bold. How on earth did you miss that?
Quote:So treating women as superior beings and giving them affection as if they were a princess is belittling and dehumanizing them? Like.. What?
Ha ha..Princess must be a poodle.
Who's a good girl? Who's a good girl?
You're my pwecious-wecious sweetheart?....Yes, you are!...Yes you are!
Who wants snuggle-wuggles? Come to pool , my honey-woney, sweetie-face...
pool-wooly wuvs you vewy, vewy, much!..Yes he does!
He weally weally does!
Heh heh...Do you get it, yet?
Quote:Like I said,women are not forbidden to pursue their career prospects, they are often encouraged to. They choose not to because they prefer to have fun in their best years than slaving away. If I were given a choice between being treated like a prince and slaving away at a pointless job, I'd choose the former 10 times out of 10,why shouldn't they have the right to?
I understood it when you said they weren't forbidden to the very first time. And the second, and the third. Promoting/encouraging women to keep their asses at home isn't the the same as forbidding. Everyone's well aware of that.
If you honestly feel that life as a pet wife in your fantasy world of luxury and opulence would be preferable to pursuing your goals in programming or software engineering, then go for it; I'm sure someone out there will manage to find you fetching enough.
Best of luck to you.
Well Thena, as far as our community goes, women choose to be housewives instead of pursuing careers. If what you are saying is true and husband regularly treat women as inferiors, like a dog, then wouldn't you think that the woman would be entirely displeased, look like shit with all the work her man makes her do, have regular fights at house and cops get called in etc?
I see these women daily, they look stunning, there is no stress in their face because" hubby will take care of it ", they don't look unhappy in the slightest , we don't have a single cop visit from domestic violence, and in my entire life time I've seen only 1 divorce case, which was my uncles.
You know, these observations don't lie, if your assertion that women were being oppressed and treated like shit were true then my observations would've been different. But these observations does match up with me asserting that they are treated as princesses, which they like, hence them lot leaving their husband. I treat all my girlfriends like little princess baby's, then aren't breaking up with me for belittling, dehumanizing and treating them like dogs (as per what you're saying)... Maybe I really am treating them like gods and they like it. Dig? :')