(May 11, 2016 at 1:05 am)pool the great Wrote:(May 11, 2016 at 12:55 am)Irrational Wrote: Keeping women happy is one thing (not that this should solely be your burden to bear anyway as she needs to realize how to make herself happy as well), but making sure they are happy being pampered spoiled princesses does suggest that you'd rather they don't be treated as adult human beings. That is sexism, and IMO, also a form of misogyny (as this is often associated with resentment of women when they refuse to be happily inferior to men).
So we should stop working our asses off to make money to keep our women happy,we should stop getting a house for her so that she can be happy, we have to stop bringing her flowers so that she can be happy, we have to stopping kissing her so that she can be happy,we should stop letting her go on shopping spree's so that she can be happy, we need to stop making her life as stress free as possible so that she can be happy. We need to encourage them to slave away at a pointless job for 50 hours a week... So that they can be happy?
Why don't you get off of your high horse and stop deciding for women what makes them happy and let them do their shit as they please. Evidently without any social conditioning they prefer to be taken care of and we prefer to take care of in our community. So why don't you stop redefining misogyny so that you can frame men that enable the well being of women as women haters and go back under the bridge.
If I told my partner I could make her happy by having her relax for the rest of her life and not have to work at all, that would piss her off big time. And she's not even a dominant assertive type. She loves being with me because I'm her best friend and, apparently, I listen (her words, not mine), not because I make a good sugar daddy and make it all about how great I am as "her man".
