I agree Eilonnwy, I actually think it's wrong to pretend that you believe when you don't. You are disrespecting them and you are also disrespecting yourself. I think that thinking to yourself quietly is respectful enough without pretending to adopt someone elses belief system just to avoid uncomfortableness at a funeral. Also, saying you need to 'play a part' at a funeral is bs anyway... people of different faiths go to funerals all the time, you dont see jewish people pretending to be christian to fit in and avoid offending anyone.
Cher
"I have no advice for anybody; except to, you know, be awake enough to see where you are at any given time, and how that is beautiful, and has poetry inside. Even places you hate" -Jeff Buckley
"I have no advice for anybody; except to, you know, be awake enough to see where you are at any given time, and how that is beautiful, and has poetry inside. Even places you hate" -Jeff Buckley
