Well, shit.

[T.J.]

Based on the little information you've given, sounds like she incorporated you into her paranoid delusion(s). It's not that uncommon when dealing with a paranoid. Attempts to help are twisted into attacks because they don't support the delusion that they hold as true. 

Continue to ask for evidence. I think you'll find that her evidence, taken out of the delusion, is not evidence at all but the product of an illness. Like you said, a doorbell ringing turned out to be just a doorbell ringing. Would a psycho killer bother with ringing the bell?

This is so spot on. I asked her a simple question today and she completely went on the defensive. She honestly thinks the people on the site we're on hero worships me. That couldn't be a bigger dose of absolute bullshit.

And for those wondering why I haven't gone through with the breakup yet, I'm waiting to see if she'll do all the work for me. Maybe the realization she ruined it for herself will help her get her shit together. I CAN BE OCD AS FUCK TOO, BITCH!