How can anyone be okay with Hell ?

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Ah, I see it now.
So what's wrong with finding your own way? I've never believed in god, and yet I've done no wrong. I've lead myself well. What's wrong with it?

Nothing is wrong with it at all, in fact it's a good thing. I suspect that you're having done no wrong comes from a great internal moral character...keyword internal.

They don't contradict because god is not included. Morality comes from us. We define it. We collectively agree on ethical standards. Live and let live. Basic respect and care for your fellow man is a common thing. Socially acceptable. Morality does not come from religion.

So if it was socially acceptable to murder babies, that'd be okay? Or would you strongly disagree with that idea based on the obviousness of its being morally wrong.?

There have been cultures where it was socially acceptable to murder babies. Their gods told them to do stupid shit so they did it.

http://dsc.discovery.com/news/2007/04/18...e_arc.html

April 18, 2007 — Archaeologists have discovered the remains of two dozen children who were apparent sacrificial victims to a rain god by Mexican Indians nearly 1,000 years ago, researchers said Tuesday.