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Help to de-convert!
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RE: Help to de-convert!
I'm sorry to hear this Sad

All I can say is that I think actively trying to deconvert someone is a bad idea in general, and even worse when you're in a relationship with them. It's going to fail, most of the time, and cause bad feelings. The person has to want to properly analyse their beliefs, and this isn't something you can force. You can sow seeds and you can be there if he wants to discuss.

I would say you need to accept him as he is, or move on. I agree with you, I couldn't be with someone who values an imaginary friend over me. Why would anyone do that, anyway? What does God need exactly? From anyone? You can safely put him bottom of all priorities and he should be able to take care of himself.
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Help to de-convert! - by JojoP - August 3, 2016 at 7:29 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by pocaracas - August 3, 2016 at 7:47 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by I_am_not_mafia - August 3, 2016 at 7:50 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aroura - August 3, 2016 at 3:01 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by account_inactive - August 3, 2016 at 8:02 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Alex K - August 3, 2016 at 8:08 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by I_am_not_mafia - August 3, 2016 at 8:14 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Grandizer - August 3, 2016 at 8:16 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 3, 2016 at 8:16 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Alex K - August 3, 2016 at 8:19 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aoi Magi - August 3, 2016 at 10:00 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 3, 2016 at 1:26 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by The Grand Nudger - August 3, 2016 at 11:40 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Minimalist - August 3, 2016 at 1:27 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by PETE_ROSE - August 3, 2016 at 1:59 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by brewer - August 3, 2016 at 3:11 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by PETE_ROSE - August 3, 2016 at 4:07 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Fake Messiah - August 4, 2016 at 7:58 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Grandizer - August 4, 2016 at 8:00 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Fake Messiah - August 5, 2016 at 7:41 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 8:10 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by deleteduser12345 - August 4, 2016 at 8:55 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 4, 2016 at 6:29 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Kosh - August 5, 2016 at 12:34 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by JojoP - August 5, 2016 at 7:50 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 5, 2016 at 8:09 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 5, 2016 at 8:55 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 8:57 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 5, 2016 at 9:05 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Fake Messiah - August 5, 2016 at 9:28 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Grandizer - August 5, 2016 at 11:21 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 9:06 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 5, 2016 at 9:07 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 9:18 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 9:19 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 5, 2016 at 9:29 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by purplepurpose - August 5, 2016 at 11:01 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Edwardo Piet - August 5, 2016 at 11:06 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by The Grand Nudger - August 5, 2016 at 3:38 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Fake Messiah - August 6, 2016 at 3:25 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 6, 2016 at 5:33 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by pocaracas - August 6, 2016 at 6:23 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 6, 2016 at 6:50 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 6, 2016 at 6:30 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 6, 2016 at 9:04 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by deleteduser12345 - August 6, 2016 at 9:38 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 6, 2016 at 10:30 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by deleteduser12345 - August 6, 2016 at 10:56 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 6, 2016 at 11:07 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by deleteduser12345 - August 6, 2016 at 11:13 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 6, 2016 at 10:33 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 6, 2016 at 6:35 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Aractus - August 7, 2016 at 10:38 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by bennyboy - August 7, 2016 at 7:38 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 7, 2016 at 1:00 pm
RE: Help to de-convert! - by Bunburryist - August 10, 2016 at 12:28 am
RE: Help to de-convert! - by robvalue - August 10, 2016 at 1:39 am

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