Yeah religious people live longer because they usually stone atheists.
But I think that OP is validly upset because I think there's little doubt that Christians will try to "convert" his boyfriend from being gay. You know after some time when things calm down, they'll probably say to him "You're sick. Your boyfriend got cancer because he's gay and that's a huge sin and you probably brought more cancer to other people because you're gay and living in sin. Why don't you go to conversion therapy. Yada. Yada. Yada."
But I think that OP is validly upset because I think there's little doubt that Christians will try to "convert" his boyfriend from being gay. You know after some time when things calm down, they'll probably say to him "You're sick. Your boyfriend got cancer because he's gay and that's a huge sin and you probably brought more cancer to other people because you're gay and living in sin. Why don't you go to conversion therapy. Yada. Yada. Yada."
teachings of the Bible are so muddled and self-contradictory that it was possible for Christians to happily burn heretics alive for five long centuries. It was even possible for the most venerated patriarchs of the Church, like St. Augustine and St. Thomas Aquinas, to conclude that heretics should be tortured (Augustine) or killed outright (Aquinas). Martin Luther and John Calvin advocated the wholesale murder of heretics, apostates, Jews, and witches. - Sam Harris, "Letter To A Christian Nation"