Lust, sex, random thought

[Esquilax]

I have another two cents to drop in here after thinking about it. My more promiscuous friends have much better, happier lives than I do. Hell, my friend's parents are in an open relationship that involves many kinky BDSM moments and they are far better people than my parents are. They are my replacement for my parents after I had to sever ties with them.

Their sex dungeon also doubles as a yoga studio. They're very efficient.

It... helps. Assuming you take part in that lifestyle ethically.

I think a lot of it just comes down to self-honesty and self-discovery, being able to both say what you want without fear of judgment from those around you, and being around enough more people in a broader amount of contexts, who can help put names and information to desires you have. It's not some cure-all, but it does help ease the way into personal growth you might not even know was needed otherwise.

On the flipside, you could leave behind you a trail of broken relationships and regrets, but... not doing that is also on the table.