(September 3, 2016 at 11:22 pm)Macoleco Wrote: As of why I have never picked another girl, is because I have strong convictions. I do not want a relationship based on sex, or interests. Yes, I may pick a girl who is attractive, even if I dont really like her. And then what? Hope for me to eventually love her? In any case, this is more of a philosophical conversation, and I do not believe it adds to the main topic.
Not everyone likes sex all that much and I hear it is possible to live a happy life without it.
But I wonder what this "love" you speak of means to you. Is it something you only feel in relationship to the one? Is it something that is just amazingly better than what you feel in relationship to anyone else?
Maybe you bottle up and restrict love in your life to where it all concentrates on this one person which you can't allow yourself to have. Do you have any pets? Seriously, get some love in your life which is ordinary and down to earth. Gotta get your feet on the ground before you can scale the heights you've assigned to the one.
