RE: Does marital reconciliation work?
May 19, 2011 at 10:26 am
(This post was last modified: May 19, 2011 at 10:28 am by Doubting Thomas.)
I have to agree with the consensus here. If she wanted to be with you, you'd already have her. She either sees your relationship as simply platonic, or she's just using you as a crutch to get through bad times. But you have to face the facts that you'll never be with her no matter how much you wish you could. The reason you're angry is that you thought you had a shot when she got a divorce, but since she didn't come running to you I'd say that's not going to happen.
I doubt the reconciliation will work. Sounds like her ex is going back to her because his new girlfriend dumped him. If you want to stay her friend then just be ready to pick up the pieces when her life is shattered again, but if you're tired of just being a crutch you might want to distance yourself and find someone you can actually share a relationship with. If the reconciliation doesn't work out you might get your hopes up again which will only be dashed again.
I doubt the reconciliation will work. Sounds like her ex is going back to her because his new girlfriend dumped him. If you want to stay her friend then just be ready to pick up the pieces when her life is shattered again, but if you're tired of just being a crutch you might want to distance yourself and find someone you can actually share a relationship with. If the reconciliation doesn't work out you might get your hopes up again which will only be dashed again.
Christian apologetics is the art of rolling a dog turd in sugar and selling it as a donut.
