your views on modern day porn consumption

[brewer]

That's good that you normally don't use porn while you have a girlfriend. 

I know there's been women here who have said their husbands look at it and they don't care, but it's very different for me. I would feel devastated and betrayed if my husband had any sort of porn habit. It would make me feel inadequate and like a violation of something sacred and special that is supposed to be shared exclusively between us. But then again, that comes with the territory of having very different views of sexuality.

Your not the first and more than likely not the last woman I know with the exact same position. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. I will say that women that take this position should be up front with their partner about it from the beginning. If they remain silent (either partner) then there will only be disappointment.