Who is to blame.

[Excited Penguin]

I think the point is, rather, to be the bigger person among imbeciles. When you get offended by their idiocy you're not doing anyone any favors. Treat them according to their level of intelligence. We don't get mad at children when they're nasty little shits who cause trouble all the time, or at least we don't blame them. We try and steer them right. We should do the same with the bigots of this world. Because we know better. There's nothing wrong with being aware of that fact.