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Have we asked theists what they'd do if their kids turned out like us?

Poll: If the teenaged child you'd raised to hold the same religious views as yourself came to you and said they no longer shared those beliefs, how would you handle it?
This poll is closed.
C'est la vie; win some, lose some.
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 1 3.57%
I'd respect their choice whether or not to attend customary religious activities or the atheist equivalent. (Is there one? Skepticism day camp?)
25.00%
 7 25.00%
I'd try my best to understand what had changed in their thinking and to understand their new beliefs.
28.57%
 8 28.57%
I would do my best to reason with them to dissuade them from leaving the beliefs they were raised in.
14.29%
 4 14.29%
While they are my dependents I'd still expect them to participate in the culture of the family, including religiously themed activities or their skepticism themed alternative - if there is one.
10.71%
 3 10.71%
I would not accept their decision and forbid them to speak of it.
0%
 0 0%
I would throw them out of the house and have nothing more to do with them.
3.57%
 1 3.57%
If their beliefs did not change by the time they were independent, I would likely have less to do with them than I would otherwise.
0%
 0 0%
I would end them. If God/reason can't have them, neither will Satan/a cult.
0%
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Fuck all polls in the ass .. yada, yada, yada.
14.29%
 4 14.29%
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Have we asked theists what they'd do if their kids turned out like us?
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RE: Have we asked theists what they'd do if their kids turned out like us?
December 5, 2016 at 4:38 pm
I told my Catholic husband that he can raise our kids Catholic if he wants and I will stay out of that part of their up bringing. He said he wouldn't put them in the faith. We ended up deciding that he will continue his religious practices while I stay out of it and the children will be raised to see both sides. When they start to question us we will explain to them why we don't believe the same thing. We won't ask them to pick, we won't try to persuade them to one side, we will remind them that if they do pick one it doesn't mean they love one parent over the other, and that it is all a personal decision. If they do become religious I will honestly be sad but I would never let them nor their father know it. I plan on supporting them no matter what.

Now to just have said children. lol
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Have we asked theists what they'd do if their kids turned out like us?

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RE: Have we asked theists what they'd do if their kids turned out like us? - by mlmooney89 - December 5, 2016 at 4:38 pm

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