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meaningless affectionless sex with person/persons I don't care for
14.29%
3 14.29%
genuine, non sexual affection with someone I love and who loves me
57.14%
12 57.14%
Other (please explain)
28.57%
6 28.57%
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meaningless sex, or loving affection?
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RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection?
I voted other.

Simply put, I'm in a relationship where currently, I have zero sexual desire. I'm tired all the time and I have some physical health problems that I need to deal with. At the same time, I get frustrated because I feel like I have to constantly remind the other adult in this house to step up and help out around here because I physically cannot do much. That said, we still love each other. We still hold hands - even when driving in the car. We put our arms around each other and we are affectionate with one another.

So when I get back to being myself physically, I see no reason to continue having this lack of sexual desire. And when I do want to have sex again, It will only be with my man because I am faithful to him and him only. As he is to me. I was raised that if you are so miserable in a relationship that you feel you need to stray, be considerate enough to leave that person and not cheat on them.
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(November 14, 2018 at 8:57 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: Have a good day at work.  If we ever meet in a professional setting, let me answer your question now.  Yes, I DO want fries with that.
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meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 9:52 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by brewer - December 8, 2016 at 9:56 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Iroscato - December 8, 2016 at 10:03 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Neo-Scholastic - December 8, 2016 at 10:32 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 10:38 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Mystical - December 8, 2016 at 10:41 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 10:55 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Neo-Scholastic - December 8, 2016 at 12:35 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Mystical - December 8, 2016 at 9:14 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Neo-Scholastic - December 9, 2016 at 12:52 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by brewer - December 8, 2016 at 10:53 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by downbeatplumb - December 8, 2016 at 1:00 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Mystical - December 8, 2016 at 10:32 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 10:37 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Divinity - December 8, 2016 at 10:37 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Joods - December 8, 2016 at 10:40 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by mlmooney89 - December 8, 2016 at 10:53 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Longhorn - December 8, 2016 at 11:11 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 12:38 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Shell B - December 8, 2016 at 12:42 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 12:46 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by mlmooney89 - December 8, 2016 at 12:59 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by mlmooney89 - December 8, 2016 at 1:01 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by downbeatplumb - December 8, 2016 at 1:01 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Mister Agenda - December 8, 2016 at 1:29 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Alex K - December 8, 2016 at 1:39 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by vorlon13 - December 8, 2016 at 2:45 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Chad32 - December 8, 2016 at 2:52 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Fake Messiah - December 8, 2016 at 4:26 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by AceBoogie - December 8, 2016 at 5:42 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by paulpablo - December 8, 2016 at 7:02 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by robvalue - December 8, 2016 at 10:07 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by AkiraTheViking - December 8, 2016 at 10:19 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Catholic_Lady - December 8, 2016 at 10:21 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by rado84 - December 9, 2016 at 1:09 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Mystical - December 20, 2016 at 9:31 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Thumpalumpacus - December 20, 2016 at 12:56 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by CapnAwesome - December 20, 2016 at 2:55 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Tonus - December 20, 2016 at 5:01 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Edwardo Piet - December 21, 2016 at 11:28 am
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Athene - December 21, 2016 at 1:40 pm
RE: meaningless sex, or loving affection? - by Edwardo Piet - December 21, 2016 at 1:56 pm

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