I did not have time to read this entire thread, but here are some answers.
You present a lot of ambiguous ideas; like fate, predetermination, choice, free will, etc.
Here is a logical look at the question of how human free will and god knowledge can co-exist.
Omnipotence and omniscience are two separate characteristics of a god.
Having knowledge of an event does not equate to having power over the event.
They are not the same thing, one is not a subset of the other.
That is one of god's choices: to know and/or to control.
God know all things and can choose when to affect or not to affect anything.
God can know the choice you will make without forcing a decision upon you.
There is no contradiction within that statement.
Furthermore, it does not really make sense to say that god controls an event simply by knowing of the event before it occurs.
God's knowledge doesn't exist as a "before" thing, or "during" thing or "after" thing.
God's knowledge of all events exists at all times.
You present a lot of ambiguous ideas; like fate, predetermination, choice, free will, etc.
Here is a logical look at the question of how human free will and god knowledge can co-exist.
Omnipotence and omniscience are two separate characteristics of a god.
Having knowledge of an event does not equate to having power over the event.
They are not the same thing, one is not a subset of the other.
That is one of god's choices: to know and/or to control.
God know all things and can choose when to affect or not to affect anything.
God can know the choice you will make without forcing a decision upon you.
There is no contradiction within that statement.
Furthermore, it does not really make sense to say that god controls an event simply by knowing of the event before it occurs.
God's knowledge doesn't exist as a "before" thing, or "during" thing or "after" thing.
God's knowledge of all events exists at all times.