Is being a virgin a turnoff for girls in college

[BrokenQuill92]

I'm 23, a junior in college and I've never slept with, kissed, made out or had sex with a single girl in my 23 years of existence! Someone told me once that I'll probably remain a virgin for the rest of my lifetime since girls find that to be a huge turnoff. I don't know, it doesn't help that I'm very shy either. I dress normally, not weird and have good hygiene. I usually wear black or blue vans with black socks and then tan or olive cargo shorts and a plain t shirt. Sometimes long, and short depending on the weather. And I'm usually wearing a baseball cap. I wear deodorant, take showers regularly and brush my teeth. But I guess since I'm not drop dead gorgeous girls just aren't attracted to me

I'm not expecting some super model to fall out of the sky and want to date me right away. But I just feel like I have zero attractive traits whatsoever and that girls just aren't attracted to me. 

Like I said, I'm not weird or anything. I'm just shy and keep to myself. I am a very nice person though. Maybe I'm too nice? My Mom has told me I'm quite a great listener as well. 

I don't live on campus either, I live by myself.

First can men stop with this "too nice" bullshit. There's no certain amount of niceness that's going to make a woman want to fuck you. That's not how it works. Now then, most women don't care about sexual experience. As a matter of fact personally I'm a girl who's a bit picky, I'd rather be with someone I can learn with together. Go read The Ethical Slut. Read some books on women by women. Talk to girls. We like connection. Conversations. Talk about things you have passion for, find people with similar interests.When it comes to sex just go slow, ask questions, it's totally okay to look stupid. There's no time limit.