RE: Is being a virgin a turnoff for girls in college
January 12, 2017 at 10:57 am
(This post was last modified: January 12, 2017 at 11:04 am by ukatheist.)
Hi ITW,
I think people are maybe jumping the gun a bit here - the problem seems to be to me that you can't get to that first step of dating a girl (the other stuff comes later)?
Have you ever asked a girl out on a date, or even for a coffee? If so, what happened? Maybe we can try to identify where you might be going wrong. If you haven't, why is that? Nerves? Feeling inadequate?
Its not like girls can 'smell' virginity on someone, if you're not getting to that first step it's unlikely to be your virginity that's the problem (unless you introduce yourself to girls as 'ITW the virgin').
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I think people are maybe jumping the gun a bit here - the problem seems to be to me that you can't get to that first step of dating a girl (the other stuff comes later)?
Have you ever asked a girl out on a date, or even for a coffee? If so, what happened? Maybe we can try to identify where you might be going wrong. If you haven't, why is that? Nerves? Feeling inadequate?
Its not like girls can 'smell' virginity on someone, if you're not getting to that first step it's unlikely to be your virginity that's the problem (unless you introduce yourself to girls as 'ITW the virgin').
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