RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 9:37 pm
(This post was last modified: January 30, 2017 at 9:38 pm by ErGingerbreadMandude.)
(January 30, 2017 at 4:10 pm)Astreja Wrote:(January 30, 2017 at 3:47 pm)pool the great Wrote:
hahah ikr! Clingy af, it's so annoying but it's a kind of extension of their love so i guess it could be excused
Clingy, nothing! It was manipulative and domineering and psychologically abusive, and prevented me from having a life of my own. I will never again make that mistake.
Dumping Whatsisname ranks as the second-best thing I ever did. (Taking music lessons is at #1.)
Must've been a pain in the ass. I want to take some music lessons too, violin is my favorite instrument.
I've had my fair share of manipulative partners too. Their favorite technique as far I can tell is guilt tripping. 30 mins with my ex and she will unload a truck of crap on me. Made me feel like shit. Always blew everything out of proportion. I remember sometimes I'm just not in a good mood so I just don't talk, the way she describes it after a week is nothing short of amazing. I slowly started believing everything she said, she would often tell me if it was someone else in her position they would've left long ago so I thought nobody else would like me. It was all very subtle, she slowly built up my dependency on her and then one day I thought to myself, "Fuck." because it didn't matter what kind of positivity I wanted whether emotional or physical, I just couldn't get it without her. That shit's toxic.
