No One Actually Wants an Equal Society

[dyresand]

I have an idea.  Why has inequality in society (wealth, race, gender, etc.) stubbornly persisted in spite of many decades of efforts to alleviate it?  Why has the discussion of privilege only intensified after much work to create equality?  Here's idea: 

No one actually wants an equal society.  

How could you be rich if everyone had the same amount of money?  How could you have the best job if all jobs were equally good?  How could you be the best scientist if all scientists were equally good?  How could you have an especially attractive mate if all people were equally attractive?  If all posts on facebook were equally good, then why would it matter which ones you looked at?  

In an equal society, there is never any chance to "get ahead" because everyone is equal.  There is no such thing as "greatness" because everyone is equally good.  No one wants this.  Everyone wants the chance to "get ahead." Everyone wants a chance to climb to the top of the pyramid, to be a hero, and to be respected and admired above their peers.  

No one wants equality.  Every individual wants to live in a society where they, as an individual, are at they top of the social pyramid.  People want high status, not equality.  

What are your thoughts?

Im not for equality and i am not for forced diversity. But at the same time i want a society were you work hard you earn what you deserve.
Not a society like now where no matter how hard you work being someone who is poor and works two to three jobs they shouldn't really even have to struggle  to survive
but that is the reality  of things.