(March 13, 2017 at 10:27 pm)Mamacita Wrote:(March 13, 2017 at 10:02 pm)Kernel Sohcahtoa Wrote: CIJS,
I've occasionally wondered what it would be like to be a stud. On the surface, being the object of many women's sexual desires does seem somewhat cool, especially if the stud-like gentleman enjoys the prospect of having plenty of sexual activity (provided of course that the parties involved are willing participants and are cool with it and engage in it safely/intelligently). However, out of curiosity, could one's 'studness', or handsomeness for that matter (which, IMO, can arguably be determined via one's culture, upbringing, and personal preference), actually make one's search for romantic relationships and lasting romantic connections with others more difficult?
First of all, you're handsome.
Second: I don't know if more difficult, but I have an observation. I used to have a friend who was soooo much better looking than me. She's taller, thinner, and has a "babe" thing going for her. She's just model material, really. We were hanging out one day and she made an observation. She was talking about a dude that had tried to date me in the last few weeks and said something like,"I don't get it. There's cute Ivy, then there's me. Why do men go for cute when they can get hot?" No joke. She said that. Lol! It's not the fact that she's hot that makes her undesirable, it's the "stud" thing. Being a bitch. That kills it. You can be hawt as fuck and be undesirable. You can be average, but very attractive. It's the way you carry yourself that will determine how people feel towards you. Everybody looks at a hot person with lust, but when it comes to a romantic relationship as you say, there's more to it.
Now... if you can be hawt as fuck, have all that swag, and carisma... dang.
^This^. Eye candy or substance, having both would be fantastic. Substance (for me) is more desirable.
Being told you're delusional does not necessarily mean you're mental.
