I knew a couple, nice people. But the husband spent lots of money on toys, a Harley, an ATV, etc. and it was putting them into debt. In response the wife decided that if he could spend money they didn't have on the things he didn't need then then she'd "show him" and do the same - buying fancy jewelry, shoes, you name it. Pretty soon they went bankrupt.
You are in a race to the bottom. It sounds like both of you are willing to let the place become a sty while you wait for the other guy to clean house first. That's just dumb. I'm not saying you should clean up his messes, but you need to be an adult and clean up after yourself.
You are in a race to the bottom. It sounds like both of you are willing to let the place become a sty while you wait for the other guy to clean house first. That's just dumb. I'm not saying you should clean up his messes, but you need to be an adult and clean up after yourself.
