(June 12, 2017 at 11:22 pm)Adventurer Wrote:Well, for starters, I wasn't assassinating your character. Second, I make no promises on this forum to anyone because that can backfire on me. I will tell you what I tell my teenagers - what you say has a direct correlation to how other people reply to you. You are not required to attend every argument you are invited to. Sometimes, taking the higher ground means more than staying and continuing to have a battle of wits with an unarmed person. So let that marinate. Like I said, go do something productive for a while. If you find you need to keep coming back here to reply, then clearly the need to get that last word in is something that is no one's fault but your own. Work on that first. Be the adult/bigger person first. Sometimes stepping away from an argument shows more maturity than staying in it.(June 12, 2017 at 11:20 pm)Nymphadora Wrote: Okay, first of all, has it ever occurred to you that you can refuse to reply to people? No one here is making you respond. And as far as I can tell, given this thread alone, you keep it going. So honestly, maybe re-read the things you have posted here and try using some tact and empathy for those you have insulted and try taking a different, kinder approach to things. Just my two cents, but really, no one has any control over how you react except for you. No one can make you feel a certain way. You choose how you will react and continue to react to things. This is the internet.. It can be brutal and unkind, but you don't have to continue fanning the flames, so to speak. You can choose to rise above and just, as you put it to SC, let it go.
Promise not to character assassinate me recurrently elsewhere when I make new threads or contribute to existing threads, ok? I don't even want SC come back victimising me again.
Peace to you.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand.
