RE: My question to pro-choice supporters
July 7, 2017 at 9:47 am
(This post was last modified: July 7, 2017 at 10:02 am by The Grand Nudger.)
He's still responsible for them even if the mother, or the state, -does- seek child support from the other daddy (and they can, ofc, provided the new daddy hasn't done something hilariously stupid like adopting the kid out of fear of being seen as an actual cuckold.... 
). Mommy is on the hook too, for any children that daddy has in his custody from another marriage...but also, through marriage, for any children that the daddy has with another woman who -aren't- in their custody. That was a big sticking point for me...after the divorce and before remarriage. Making sure the current wifey understood that her life and her children's lives would be impacted..for better or for worse. That she was buying into paying out - by marrying me.
We're very familiar with the injured spouse claim, vis a vis the irs and property law...at this point, lol. We've got things set up so that our assets are as isolated from each other as the law allows them to be. So that, for example....should we become destitute and I go deep into arrears again...the house that she and our children live in cannot be liened by the state. So that the state cannot force the sale of her private assets to cover my past poor taste in women. We have joint and private accounts - as well as our jointly owned LLC and all of it's assets. Shit is bulletproof...but it;s kind of depressing to have to make those sorts of decisions with a woman who loves you just because the last one stopped doing so, lol. Ah well, tanglked webs and human relationships I guess.
I'm willing to bet that some portion of peoples idea that "deadbeat dads are always hiding something" is -that-...and not anything nefarious. I've already had ichor spit at me for aggressively pursuing the interests of my current wife and our children. Fortunately, those interested in doing so can pound sand. Most folks..though, can;t afford a decent lawyer and don't get the same good ole boy treatment in a court that I do...showing up clean shaven in a tie..for reasons™. So..they get to watch as the state fucks them and the children they have, and society cheers them on because deadbeats..hur dur.
). Mommy is on the hook too, for any children that daddy has in his custody from another marriage...but also, through marriage, for any children that the daddy has with another woman who -aren't- in their custody. That was a big sticking point for me...after the divorce and before remarriage. Making sure the current wifey understood that her life and her children's lives would be impacted..for better or for worse. That she was buying into paying out - by marrying me.We're very familiar with the injured spouse claim, vis a vis the irs and property law...at this point, lol. We've got things set up so that our assets are as isolated from each other as the law allows them to be. So that, for example....should we become destitute and I go deep into arrears again...the house that she and our children live in cannot be liened by the state. So that the state cannot force the sale of her private assets to cover my past poor taste in women. We have joint and private accounts - as well as our jointly owned LLC and all of it's assets. Shit is bulletproof...but it;s kind of depressing to have to make those sorts of decisions with a woman who loves you just because the last one stopped doing so, lol. Ah well, tanglked webs and human relationships I guess.
I'm willing to bet that some portion of peoples idea that "deadbeat dads are always hiding something" is -that-...and not anything nefarious. I've already had ichor spit at me for aggressively pursuing the interests of my current wife and our children. Fortunately, those interested in doing so can pound sand. Most folks..though, can;t afford a decent lawyer and don't get the same good ole boy treatment in a court that I do...showing up clean shaven in a tie..for reasons™. So..they get to watch as the state fucks them and the children they have, and society cheers them on because deadbeats..hur dur.
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