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The little things that do it for ya
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RE: The little things that do it for ya
I think I'm probably not that deep as far as a person's mind, though as a minority (disabled) I love it when I can truly connect with somebody. I like them for who they are and they don't patronize or insult me. People communicating with people. 

Having said all that---and this maybe relates to some developmental social issues that come with the territory of being disabled in an able-bodies world---fashion and bodytype can really be overwhelmingly amazing at times. Especially if you have both. Maybe you're a ballet dancer or athlete and your body reflects that, and your hair is done just right. Or beyond just right. And you have a personality to match. It almost puts a lump in my throat.

I'm a heterosexual man, inasmuch as I've never in 41 years had a physical/sexual attraction to a man, but boy am I prone to envy at times. I'm 60 lbs overweight and have skinny legs due to my spina bifida. I used to be an athlete as a junior, including one international track/field event. But that was 1989. Things got way different, way quickly when I became an adult. 

But anyhow, I do love seeing a guy in a very crisply done shirt and tie. I cannot make the look work because of my difficult body. But I go to medical conferences at least once a year, and the doctors that present are all done up very nicely in this way (males, anyway). Very simple, but very nice. Especially when that person takes care of their body, as well as their mind. It just makes me feel like they all have it down as far as life.
"For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." - Carl Sagan
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The little things that do it for ya - by J a c k - July 11, 2017 at 6:26 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by vorlon13 - July 11, 2017 at 6:41 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Foxaèr - July 11, 2017 at 6:41 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by brewer - July 11, 2017 at 6:49 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by vorlon13 - July 11, 2017 at 6:54 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by paulpablo - July 11, 2017 at 7:54 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by J a c k - July 11, 2017 at 8:00 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Ben Davis - July 11, 2017 at 9:12 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by vorlon13 - July 12, 2017 at 12:15 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by ignoramus - July 12, 2017 at 4:54 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Ben Davis - July 12, 2017 at 7:03 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by c172 - July 11, 2017 at 10:28 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Athene - July 12, 2017 at 2:05 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by J a c k - July 12, 2017 at 4:59 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Fireball - July 12, 2017 at 12:10 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Regina - July 12, 2017 at 5:09 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by vorlon13 - July 12, 2017 at 3:04 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Ben Davis - July 12, 2017 at 8:15 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by ignoramus - July 12, 2017 at 7:22 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by ignoramus - July 13, 2017 at 1:09 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by ignoramus - July 13, 2017 at 8:24 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by brewer - July 13, 2017 at 7:06 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by vorlon13 - July 13, 2017 at 7:07 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by brewer - July 13, 2017 at 7:11 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Fireball - July 13, 2017 at 8:47 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by *Deidre* - July 13, 2017 at 9:03 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Fireball - July 13, 2017 at 10:08 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by brewer - July 13, 2017 at 9:50 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Mr.Obvious - July 13, 2017 at 7:21 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by vorlon13 - July 13, 2017 at 10:56 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Mr.Obvious - July 14, 2017 at 6:49 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Ben Davis - July 14, 2017 at 7:27 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Fireball - July 14, 2017 at 4:32 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by brewer - July 14, 2017 at 5:15 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by ignoramus - July 13, 2017 at 9:56 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by The Valkyrie - July 13, 2017 at 10:45 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by ignoramus - July 13, 2017 at 11:21 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by brewer - July 13, 2017 at 10:00 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Exian - July 14, 2017 at 8:12 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Exian - July 15, 2017 at 10:06 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by *Deidre* - July 14, 2017 at 8:16 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by c172 - July 14, 2017 at 9:45 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by c172 - July 14, 2017 at 9:53 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by ignoramus - July 14, 2017 at 10:08 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by The Valkyrie - July 14, 2017 at 10:21 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by ignoramus - July 14, 2017 at 11:10 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by The Valkyrie - July 14, 2017 at 11:20 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by brewer - July 15, 2017 at 10:01 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Ben Davis - July 15, 2017 at 10:12 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Fireball - July 15, 2017 at 11:58 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by ignoramus - July 16, 2017 at 12:39 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Joods - July 17, 2017 at 11:48 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Joods - July 17, 2017 at 12:35 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by brewer - July 17, 2017 at 12:36 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Foxaèr - July 17, 2017 at 12:39 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by brewer - July 17, 2017 at 6:12 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by Foxaèr - July 17, 2017 at 6:16 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by c172 - July 17, 2017 at 6:23 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by J a c k - July 17, 2017 at 8:44 pm
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by ignoramus - July 18, 2017 at 12:40 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by The Valkyrie - July 18, 2017 at 12:42 am
RE: The little things that do it for ya - by brewer - July 18, 2017 at 2:26 pm

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