[split] I Think I May Have Come Close to Dying Friday Night

[Shell B]

I used that word "cuntbag" specifically to point out your resort to insult (hence the italics -- I had thought that much would be obvious). If you don't like being insulted, then you probably ought not do it. And if you don't mind being insulted, why are you whining? You don't get to eat your cake and have it, too.

You think cuntbag was the only thing insulting in your post? I don't mind being insulted. You're the one crying about apologies when you were the first one to dish it out. Own your shit, slag.

That's her own chosen user-title -- I didn't bestow it upon her. How does me simply pointing to the fact that her using that title is a form of throwing weight around translate to impugning the integrity of the staff?

It's really absolutely none of your business, but that's positively not why it's my title. I changed it to that well before I married Tiberius, and it was because he thought it was cute and it garnered me kisses. We used to flirt with each other via tag lines and reps. The amount of bullshit you and your merry band of morons infer from even my slightest action is astounding. I've definitely noticed that people who were here before I went on hiatus and knew me before I married Tibs throw out this stupid nonsense far less than the newbs. You don't know me. You don't know him. You don't know shit about staff duties and the work they put in to be fair, so cut the shit.

Furthermore, there's a right and wrong way to go about seeking an apology, and you chose the wrong way. One day you'll learn, but you'll have to do that on your own.

You are ludicrous. "One day you'll learn." You fancy yourself the Buddha, don't you?

ETA: Also, why would I need to use Tibs to curry favor with the staff? Who do you think pays for this forum when donations fall flat? I happily and without complaint put it right in with our other marital expenses. My husband put years of work into this place, and fights all the time to keep it as open and without staff bias as possible. I would never ask him to put his "vision" for this place aside because I got into a petty squabble about fucking Benadryl. I would never use our marriage as a way to gain points online. It's absurd. There are maybe a handful of people who know how the "hierarchy" of forum ownership goes (because someone has to do it if Tibs can't). You'd probably be surprised to know how it falls and that it was at my request Tibs do it this way. (Probably the only time I influenced anything when I wasn't on staff) I have no interest in influencing this forum in any way. You won't take my word for it, and that's fine. However, the "higher ups" know how things really work, and they're actually good people, so I'm just happy to have their confidence. Yours is not important.