(July 30, 2017 at 4:59 pm)Regina Wrote: I'm in the camp that think's she's a bit naive, alongside what Min was saying in his post back on page 1.
It is wrong to share nudes without the person's consent, and I also think it's shady to view them. I haven't seen any of these celeb's leaked nudes and don't wish to, out of respect for them.
With that being said, I do also think this is the risk you take when you send nudes over the internet, whether it's on an app, a forum, or any other digital medium. This shit happens, and as much as people will want to say I'm "victim blaming" this is the absolute truth; the best way to make sure nobody sees your nudes is to just not send them. You can't trust people, not even someone you've been in a serious relationship with, you don't know if that relationship will turn sour and that person will leak them just to be a spiteful cunt. This isn't a fairy tale world. The truth is it's naive to think people give a fuck about you, because they don't. You have to look out for yourself.
Personally, I have sent nudes over apps, and I fully accept the responsibility and weight that comes with that. If my nudes got leaked? Yeah it would be fucking embarrassing and I'd probably be a little pissed about it, not going to lie, but I imagine I'd still own up to it. I'm not going to deny it or act like I'm high and mighty, I'm not that kind of bitch, if you've caught me then you've caught me. Yes that's an ass, never seen one before?
The key word is "consent" not the nudity itself.
You admit it is still a risk but even if it got out you still would have nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone has plumbing both male and female and humanity has be aware of that forever.
And yes it will get looked at no matter what. The shame isn't in that you got nude, or even that it got posted, the shame is always about lack of consent.
